Anything under the sun!

[Max]

Originally Posted by Anoree

Now, would you please stop hitting on poor, misguided Max?
I'm pretty sure he'll come around in a few years, when he grows up and love somehow finds it's way to him.

And even if he doesn't, it's his right to live his life the way he wants.

Max, I don't think watching porn is cheating if you're in a relationship. While you can use porn as a stimulus to have fun alone, it also can be used by couples together or when they are separated for a time. In a happy marriage, it may even be an element (among others) to keep the marriage happy.

If you know your partner doesn't want you to watch it, and you watch it secretly anyway, then it's cheating. But that would also be the case with flirting with other women outside the relationship or even always going to the bar around the corner, in my eyes.

Again, I don't want to come off as jealous, or judgmental, but I think porn is cheap, and I don't want to have to "buy a woman" like a car or a house. Cultural norms say the guy has to pay for it all, and I'm poor, and I don't care, so what's it to me? I enjoy the single life anyways.