Double standards about pornography

Max · 05-15-2010, 04:41 AM

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Originally Posted by Woody

So Mum & Dad found out and now she won't be working in porn anymore?

Some girls will say they do porn for themselfs but when someone like there parents finds out they stop and that's the end of that!

And yeah of course some parents won't understand!

I like porn and i like FTV! So i see all the good stuff that comes with it! Like the outdoor stuff!!

But some parents will just see there daughters doing porn and all the bad stuff what comes with it!! Like there daughters masturbating in public!!

But i think there is just as many parents out there who respects there daughters chose in career!!

Ron Jeremy, the king of porn himself, said that there is a double standard here. It's OK for our sons to do it but not our daughters. This is one reason I have a double standard for fathers. When I see a boy's father, I think "Wow, this guy is a great role model, he's doing a good job raising his son, I salute him." When I see a girls father, I think "Wow, this guy has the nerve to yell at a guy for sleeping with his daughter, and doesn't say a damn thing to her. What an ***." Sometimes I think to myself "You're not a father, until you have a son." This leads me to believe that Rob has been yelled at by several parents. Note that I do not have a sister and this is just what I observe.
Something that is even sadder is that I live with people in the dorm (not my parents) that have a problem with just masturbation period. They said that they would spank their sons for looking up porn, or even just masturbating. I told them "That's very Christian of you, believe what I say or I'll assault you." They didn't get that. I told them that my parents have raised 2 male children and are now quite aware that it is normal for your son to view porn, they were freaked out at first, but now they are understanding of both me and my brother (even though he does a better job of covering it up than I do.) There are just some things in this world that piss me off, and this is one of them.

P.S. I am wondering why the moderators remove swear words here. We're all adults here, what's the problem, I had some places here where I wanted to swear? also I'm sorry if this is a rant and if it is off topic.

Woody · 05-15-2010, 04:59 AM

What??? And what's that got to do with my message?

Max · 05-15-2010, 04:33 PM

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Originally Posted by Woody

What??? And what's that got to do with my message?

It has to do with the fact that girls can't do porn, but guys can. Most parents are not accepting of it.

Woody · 05-15-2010, 05:52 PM

Boys & girls can do porn!!

When the parents finds out it's then upto them to either accept what there son or daughter does for a living! And if they don't accept it! Well then they don't!

Max you didn't need to quote my messages! So by all means have your little rant but how about just getting your message across instead of using mine!

And i will apologise now for going off topic!

Woody · 05-16-2010, 06:51 AM

So by the look of the polls at the momemt guys have no problem watching other peoples daughters or sons do porn!!

It's when there own gets in porn then thats just wrong!!

That is a just the way it is!! It's a funny world out there!

Anoree · 05-16-2010, 07:21 AM

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Originally Posted by Woody

So by the look of the polls at the momemt guys have no problem watching other peoples daughters or sons do porn!!

It's when there own gets in porn then thats just wrong!!

That is a just the way it is!! It's a funny world out there!

Maybe it's a kind of parental protection reflex. (We know Porn can be a very hard business.) I think it might even have subconcious roots. Most parents don't like the idea of their children, especially daughters, to be sexually active outside an approved relationship.

The social background may also have an influence: "What if Aunt Suzy/my coworkers/Mrs Parker down the street/Priest Simmons finds out?"

Woody · 05-17-2010, 02:48 AM

You don't see a double standard here? Where some guys will say it's wrong for a model to do hardcore but then it's ok for the same model to do what she does on FTV?

So is that just preference or a double standard?

Dilbert49 · 05-17-2010, 03:14 AM

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Originally Posted by Woody

So is that just preference or a double standard?

To me, it's a double standard to say that a woman is "wrong" to do one thing versus another. But for what I choose to watch, it's preference. I prefer to not watch scenes with anal in them but I don't feel that the model is "wrong" for making participating in such a scene (so long as the activity is legal).

Enigma · 05-17-2010, 11:29 PM

they way to look at it is like this, to do porn that we watch you need a man and a woman (forgetting any sort of gay porn and lesbian) so if a womans dad watches porn, he is watching some ones daughter, it's a tad silly to then say his daughter can't do it.

So, the point is this we are all some ones kid's, male or female.

View Poll Results: Is it OK for our kids to do porn?
Yes, for our son(s)	2	25.00%
Yes, for our daughter(s)	2	25.00%
No, for neither	2	25.00%
It's OK for me to watch, but not for my kids to watch	3	37.50%
They can watch it, but not do it.	1	12.50%
How dare you ask?!	1	12.50%
Multiple Choice Poll. Voters: 8. You may not vote on this poll

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Woody In Love with Danielle Join Date: Dec 2009 Location: UK Posts: 149	What??? And what's that got to do with my message? Last edited by Woody; 05-15-2010 at 06:30 AM.

05-15-2010, 05:52 PM	#4
Woody In Love with Danielle Join Date: Dec 2009 Location: UK Posts: 149	Boys & girls can do porn!! When the parents finds out it's then upto them to either accept what there son or daughter does for a living! And if they don't accept it! Well then they don't! Max you didn't need to quote my messages! So by all means have your little rant but how about just getting your message across instead of using mine! And i will apologise now for going off topic! Last edited by Woody; 05-15-2010 at 06:23 PM.

05-16-2010, 06:51 AM	#5
Woody In Love with Danielle Join Date: Dec 2009 Location: UK Posts: 149	So by the look of the polls at the momemt guys have no problem watching other peoples daughters or sons do porn!! It's when there own gets in porn then thats just wrong!! That is a just the way it is!! It's a funny world out there! Last edited by Woody; 05-16-2010 at 07:05 AM.

05-17-2010, 02:48 AM	#7
Woody In Love with Danielle Join Date: Dec 2009 Location: UK Posts: 149	You don't see a double standard here? Where some guys will say it's wrong for a model to do hardcore but then it's ok for the same model to do what she does on FTV? So is that just preference or a double standard?

05-17-2010, 11:29 PM	#9
Enigma Danielle's Biggest Fan Join Date: Apr 2009 Posts: 272	they way to look at it is like this, to do porn that we watch you need a man and a woman (forgetting any sort of gay porn and lesbian) so if a womans dad watches porn, he is watching some ones daughter, it's a tad silly to then say his daughter can't do it. So, the point is this we are all some ones kid's, male or female.