A smart young woman

artboy · 03-03-2009, 01:12 PM

Dear Danielle,

I would appreciate it, if the reader of this would forward this message
to Danielle/ Pepper. (real name)?

I probably will only write you once. I saw a video where you were
speaking about someone making a comment about you and
your nudity.

I would be proud if you were my Daughter and I really was impressed
with your outlook about this. You should tell your parents that they
should be very proud of you.

There is nothing wrong with nudity, for G-d made our bodies . I
find many people who treat these photos like they are porn, which
makes me laugh. There is no porn in enjoying a beautiful woman or man.

You are very wise for your age. I see beauty way beyond your nudity
and like I said, I was very impressed with your bright ourtlook.

There is hope.

Best Regards,
Mark

danielle_ftv · 03-04-2009, 07:18 PM

I also think this way too. I find that very interesting when you said "I would be proud if you were my daughter". Most parents, even if they watch "porn" would not want their daughter to be doing it. Now I don't think it's the same with sons. It's funny how much sons get away with...and only because they are male and the "stronger sex." But anyways I appreciate you posting this letter/message on here.

Natal · 03-05-2009, 02:21 AM

I'm not so sure about that....I think most parents would have a much more negative response about sons doing porn than their daughters. While it is seen as quasi acceptable for girls to do modeling of one form or another, it is usually seen as a shameful career for a guy (even mainstream modeling).

Dilbert49 · 03-06-2009, 12:15 AM

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Originally Posted by Natal

I'm not so sure about that....I think most parents would have a much more negative response about sons doing porn than their daughters. While it is seen as quasi acceptable for girls to do modeling of one form or another, it is usually seen as a shameful career for a guy (even mainstream modeling).

I don't think most parents would be happy about having a son/daughter in porn, but I think the reaction would be much more negative to have a daughter in porn.

Of course, a whole other conversation could be had about how one might react upon logging into a favored porn site only to see their daughter, mother, sister, niece, cousin, (:::shudder::

in the coming attractions!

Natal · 03-06-2009, 01:33 AM

Well, think of it this way (how the average family probably reacts):

Daughter walks down the catwalk - OK; Son walks down the catwalk not so good, but OK.

Next step: Daughter poses for Playboy - not so good, but OK; Son poses for Playgirl - definitely not OK, but they'll get used to it.

Next step: Daughter acts in adult movie - definitely not OK, but they'll get used to it; Son acts in an adult movie - they have a son?

Dilbert49 · 03-06-2009, 11:11 PM

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Originally Posted by Natal

Well, think of it this way (how the average family probably reacts):

Daughter walks down the catwalk - OK; Son walks down the catwalk not so good, but OK.

Next step: Daughter poses for Playboy - not so good, but OK; Son poses for Playgirl - definitely not OK, but they'll get used to it.

Next step: Daughter acts in adult movie - definitely not OK, but they'll get used to it; Son acts in an adult movie - they have a son?

I have to wonder, though, whether most parents would ever get used to having a daughter making adult movies. Seems to me it might be easier to get used to a son in porn, but a daughter seems to be on a whole other level. And, yes, I do realize this is a sexist view, but haven't we always had that view? Our daughters need to stay virgins, but we're sometimes proud of our sons' "conquests."

tigger · 03-07-2009, 12:03 AM

I would definetly not want Sarah doing an adult web sight. she is already sexualy active and im not too happy about that, but she is 17 and has a mind of her own. they do grow up too fast.

danielle_ftv · 03-07-2009, 12:43 AM

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Originally Posted by tigger

I would definetly not want Sarah doing an adult web sight. she is already sexualy active and im not too happy about that, but she is 17 and has a mind of her own. they do grow up too fast.

Well that's awesome that she feels comfortable enough to talk to you about being sexually active...means you are doing a good job

tigger · 03-07-2009, 01:52 AM

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Originally Posted by danielle_ftv

well that's awesome that she feels comfortable enough to talk to you about being sexually active...means you are doing a good job :d

god i hope so. After loosing her mom we became vary close. She tells me just about everything, i know about all her girlfriends problems. Lol im still trying to get used to the boyfriend thing. But i was her age once and i wasnt a saint eather. Its hard when its your little girl that isnt so little any more. Amanda is more than happy to let me know when to back off and let sarah make her own mistakes. But its not easy.

DWM222 · 03-09-2009, 01:55 AM

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Originally Posted by tigger

god i hope so. After loosing her mom we became vary close. She tells me just about everything, i know about all her girlfriends problems. Lol im still trying to get used to the boyfriend thing. But i was her age once and i wasnt a saint eather. Its hard when its your little girl that isnt so little any more. Amanda is more than happy to let me know when to back off and let sarah make her own mistakes. But its not easy.

I would agree with Danielle that you are doing a good job Tigger, I know the signs..I am a single father with a daughter also... I have to say the biggest challenge of my life & also the most rewarding..One day soon I'll share some of the story...it might be a bit boring to someone who hasn't been there, and Rob might need to add some server space (long also) but the outcome has made me "The Luckiest Man Alive"..

& for Danielle & the other ladies in the adult modeling world..Love your work.. you are all very beautiful and much appreciated so don't let anyone give you any crap about it (I've got a couple of stories about that too)...& the teaser on that is...my daughter's mother was a nude model when we met...& I married her..

tigger · 03-09-2009, 02:06 AM

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Originally Posted by DWM222

I would agree with Danielle that you are doing a good job Tigger, I know the signs..I am a single father with a daughter also... I have to say the biggest challenge of my life & also the most rewarding..One day soon I'll share some of the story...it might be a bit boring to someone who hasn't been there, and Rob might need to add some server space (long also) but the outcome has made me "The Luckiest Man Alive"..

& for Danielle & the other ladies in the adult modeling world..Love your work.. you are all very beautiful and much appreciated so don't let anyone give you any crap about it (I've got a couple of stories about that too)...& the teaser on that is...my daughter's mother was a nude model when we met...& I married her..

Thanks it's not easy raising a teen daughter there are just some things a man cant answer. lol but she has grandma for that stuff. I will agree there are a lot or rewards as well.

shink1m · 03-09-2009, 03:57 PM

I'm all for supporting your child, whatever he or she wants.

If I'd have a daughter and she decides to pursue a career similar to Danielle, I'd be 100% behind her decision. My primary concern would be her health, especially if she might do adult movies; but I guess we all just need to be careful nowadays.

Not to hijack this thread, Danielle, but in your movie, did the people behind it pay special attention to the performers' health? Like did they guarantee no disease, and/or was bathing beforehand mandatory?

More power to you, sweetie!

danielle_ftv · 03-09-2009, 10:45 PM

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Originally Posted by DWM222

the teaser on that is...my daughter's mother was a nude model when we met...& I married her..

Wow that's awesome. At least that shows me that there ARE guys out there that won't be bothered by what I do.

danielle_ftv · 03-09-2009, 10:47 PM

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Originally Posted by shink1m

Not to hijack this thread, Danielle, but in your movie, did the people behind it pay special attention to the performers' health? Like did they guarantee no disease, and/or was bathing beforehand mandatory?

You know honestly I've never heard about rules that you have to bathe before doing the videos...but that's kind of a common sense thing. I mean I always make sure I am super clean down there when I am doing a shoot. But yes almost all performers have to go through AIMS testing...which tests for AIDS and other diseases.

lovley · 03-10-2009, 08:17 PM

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Originally Posted by danielle_ftv

Wow that's awesome. At least that shows me that there ARE guys out there that won't be bothered by what I do.

of course there are guys like that out there.. im one of them lol

i actualy dated a nude modell once.. i didnt have a problem of men seeing her naked at all.. to bad her personality wasnt as good as i thougth in the begining, i had to end it. but not because of her job but of what she did to me..something bad.
anyway that was a short story from long ago in my life.

oh and if i in the future gets a daugther who wanna be a nude modell then i would tell her to tell me where she work so i dont accidently see her lol.

danielle_ftv · 03-13-2009, 08:59 PM

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Originally Posted by lovley

of course there are guys like that out there.. im one of them lol

i actualy dated a nude modell once.. i didnt have a problem of men seeing her naked at all.. to bad her personality wasnt as good as i thougth in the begining, i had to end it. but not because of her job but of what she did to me..something bad.
anyway that was a short story from long ago in my life.

oh and if i in the future gets a daugther who wanna be a nude modell then i would tell her to tell me where she work so i dont accidently see her lol.

That's funny. I'm always super scared that my mom will come across some of my nude pics...gawd that would be so embarassing. Familial nudity to me is horribly embarassing for some odd reason.

lovley · 03-13-2009, 09:18 PM

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Originally Posted by danielle_ftv

That's funny. I'm always super scared that my mom will come across some of my nude pics...gawd that would be so embarassing. Familial nudity to me is horribly embarassing for some odd reason.

we share that feeling. once on a forum i did put on some nude pics for girls to see, since they wanted lol. and i could never stop worry someone would find it from my family even if i knew they know nothing about computers

silly i know.

03-03-2009, 01:12 PM	#1
artboy Just Visiting Join Date: Mar 2009 Posts: 1	A smart young woman Dear Danielle, I would appreciate it, if the reader of this would forward this message to Danielle/ Pepper. (real name)? I probably will only write you once. I saw a video where you were speaking about someone making a comment about you and your nudity. I would be proud if you were my Daughter and I really was impressed with your outlook about this. You should tell your parents that they should be very proud of you. There is nothing wrong with nudity, for G-d made our bodies . I find many people who treat these photos like they are porn, which makes me laugh. There is no porn in enjoying a beautiful woman or man. You are very wise for your age. I see beauty way beyond your nudity and like I said, I was very impressed with your bright ourtlook. There is hope. Best Regards, Mark

03-04-2009, 07:18 PM	#2
danielle_ftv Administrator Join Date: Sep 2008 Location: Phoenix, Arizona Posts: 3,321	I also think this way too. I find that very interesting when you said "I would be proud if you were my daughter". Most parents, even if they watch "porn" would not want their daughter to be doing it. Now I don't think it's the same with sons. It's funny how much sons get away with...and only because they are male and the "stronger sex." But anyways I appreciate you posting this letter/message on here. __________________ XOXO Danielle FTV

03-06-2009, 01:33 AM	#5
Natal Danielle's Imaginary Boyfriend Join Date: Jan 2009 Location: Vancouver Posts: 667	Well, think of it this way (how the average family probably reacts): Daughter walks down the catwalk - OK; Son walks down the catwalk not so good, but OK. Next step: Daughter poses for Playboy - not so good, but OK; Son poses for Playgirl - definitely not OK, but they'll get used to it. Next step: Daughter acts in adult movie - definitely not OK, but they'll get used to it; Son acts in an adult movie - they have a son? Last edited by Natal; 03-06-2009 at 01:43 AM.

03-07-2009, 12:03 AM	#7
tigger Danielle's Future Ex-Husband Join Date: Sep 2008 Location: out yonder way! Posts: 1,093	I would definetly not want Sarah doing an adult web sight. she is already sexualy active and im not too happy about that, but she is 17 and has a mind of her own. they do grow up too fast. __________________ IF YOU SEE ME RUNNING YOU BETTER BE RIGHT BEHIND ME!!!!

03-09-2009, 03:57 PM	#12
shink1m Danielle Junkie Join Date: Nov 2008 Location: QC, Philippines Posts: 28	I'm all for supporting your child, whatever he or she wants. If I'd have a daughter and she decides to pursue a career similar to Danielle, I'd be 100% behind her decision. My primary concern would be her health, especially if she might do adult movies; but I guess we all just need to be careful nowadays. Not to hijack this thread, Danielle, but in your movie, did the people behind it pay special attention to the performers' health? Like did they guarantee no disease, and/or was bathing beforehand mandatory? More power to you, sweetie! __________________

03-05-2009, 02:21 AM	#3
Natal Danielle's Imaginary Boyfriend Join Date: Jan 2009 Location: Vancouver Posts: 667	I'm not so sure about that....I think most parents would have a much more negative response about sons doing porn than their daughters. While it is seen as quasi acceptable for girls to do modeling of one form or another, it is usually seen as a shameful career for a guy (even mainstream modeling).