Have you noticed women rule the world?

[Immortal]

Originally Posted by danielle_ftv

I'm sorry sweetie...that you were treated like that by girls. I'm sure it has put a bad taste in your mouth towards the female sex. But you've also got to remember that we aren't all alike and I'm sure one day you will meet the girl of your dreams.

This i may add Danielle, is 100% TRUE! I was where Max is now, But i did meet the girl of my dreams 2 1/2 years ago. I never really knew what true love was or if it existed, It does! I'm now in a relationship that some people only dream about. If i ever lost her i could never love anyone like i do her.

[Danifan2009]

Originally Posted by Immortal

This i may add Danielle, is 100% TRUE! I was where Max is now, But i did meet the girl of my dreams 2 1/2 years ago. I never really knew what true love was or if it existed, It does! I'm now in a relationship that some people only dream about. If i ever lost her i could never love anyone like i do her.

i know how that is i was married twice and both was duds one was physically abusive and one was mentally abusive now i finally met the man of my dreams it took me 14 years but i finally got the one!!! yes women rule!

[Max]

Originally Posted by Danifan2009

i know how that is i was married twice and both was duds one was physically abusive and one was mentally abusive now i finally met the man of my dreams it took me 14 years but i finally got the one!!! yes women rule!

I am going to pick apart marriage and find the flaws in it, I would also say this has nothing to do with me "not liking women". I have no desire to get married at any time, because marriage is a business contract. The government doesn't care if I marry a woman (or even a tranny who has legally changed their sex), never see her (or it or him or whatever) again, just to get a tax break and to have my insurance rates drop, then have a girlfriend, then start a serious relationship. A marriage license is a business conract and really nothing else. Don't sign a business contract based on emotions (I'm not talking about ethics, but emotions), if it will cost you a ton of money later. Judges throw out prenuptuial agreements all the time, so it's just better to be safe there and don't sign the contract. Men get raped in divorce court, so marriage is really just a bad business decision. I don't need kids anyway, if I feel like I want to replicate my genes, I can just be a sperm donor. If fathers are so good, why are they removed from their sons' lives only to be there to pay child support? Finally over half of all marriages end in divorce, and the leading cause is financial problems.

[100% AGAVE]

Max,

Just my 2 cents. I went through some rough times when I was younger and had to work thorough quite a few issues before I found a loving relationship. It all comes down to the fact that you have to be comfortable with yourself and who you are before you should get involved in a relationship. Until you yourself are healthy, you will attract and be attracted to women who will meet the negative expectations that you have set-up. Not to get too Freud on you, but most likely a lot of this is due to unresolved issues that happened in your childhood. I am saying this from experience, I think you should strongly consider seeing a counselor. Don't wait until you you can say "I should have done this or that". If you want to be a martyr .... fine, keep doing what you are doing and enjoy it. Otherwise TAKE ACTION.

[Max]

Originally Posted by 100% AGAVE

Max,

Just my 2 cents. I went through some rough times when I was younger and had to work thorough quite a few issues before I found a loving relationship. It all comes down to the fact that you have to be comfortable with yourself and who you are before you should get involved in a relationship. Until you yourself are healthy, you will attract and be attracted to women who will meet the negative expectations that you have set-up. Not to get too Freud on you, but most likely a lot of this is due to unresolved issues that happened in your childhood. I am saying this from experience, I think you should strongly consider seeing a counselor. Don't wait until you you can say "I should have done this or that". If you want to be a martyr .... fine, keep doing what you are doing and enjoy it. Otherwise TAKE ACTION.

From personal experience and stories from both friends, and even stories my mother has told me, who has been married to my father for 28 years, several women will do anything to get married, like guys will do anything to get laid. My mother taught me that it is important for men to watch out for that kind of woman, and realize that it is worse to be married to the wrong person than it is to be single, which I can't agree with more. It seems like many women I have met would disagree with this statement, which makes no sense, and I would want to run as far away from them as possible. I knew one girl who I had a strong belief that had a crush on me in high school, that when I saw her for her looks the first time, I thought she was very attractive, and maybe I would like to get to know her better, however, I later discovered that she had a serious drug problem, and I know that she has done heroin as well as crack. I think that both my parents believe marriage is a good thing if it is done with the right person, but if a woman like that were to marry me, both of my parents and I agree the best thing to do is run, run as fast as you can. The only aspect of marriage that I am really against is the legal aspect of it, which believes that a 35 year old woman is as dependant on a man as his 8 year old son. She can get a job, and she doesn't need alimony payments. An unsigned contract can't be broken, so don't sign it. It's fine to have a wedding, a diamond ring is not everything, my mother never had one, but if she wants one, it's fine to get her one, just say in advance, that you won't sign the legal contract, and if she is against a prenuptuial agreement, RUN! It is a safety catch, not a matter of distrust, and that is clearly a signal that she just wants your money. If the marriage will work, than it shouldn't really matter, and saying that this will be used should just be a filter that weeds out the ones who want your money. I'm just saying to be careful with your money in marriage. Even though gay marriage has not been fully legalized, if I were gay, I would still take the same precautions. Half of your stuff is a lot, and alimony really will rape your finances. The reason that I am cautioning men more is because we are the ones who always get the shaft of the stick in divorce court.

[DWM222]

Max...women are great..I've been married lots of times & only lost a few houses/cars
(I need to get married one more time so I can get rid of this piece of **** house that I have now..in the next divorce)..LOL

[Max]

Originally Posted by DWM222

Max...women are great..I've been married lots of times & only lost a few houses/cars
(I need to get married one more time so I can get rid of this piece of **** house that I have now..in the next divorce)..LOL

I don't see why you would get married if the thought of divorce even enters your mind. Marriage is supposed to be for life, but in our culture it has been something that has been warped into something that can be changed. Divorce used to only be a last resort, and getting married and divorced is significantly worse than not even getting married in the first place. 1st off, the quote "it is better to have loved and lost than to have never loved at all" is a lie. You will never miss what you never had, and you will miss something you treasured and lost significantly. Also, why can't you just sell the house, or demolish it? I think it used to be fine to get married, but in today's society, it is just a bad business decision for men, and the divorce rate is very high. As I said earlier, some people, especially women, will do anything to get married, and don't understand that they should run like hell, unless they are marying the right person. One house lost is too many, when you marry a woman you have to be EXTREMELY CAREFUL, I can't stress this enough. You should be dating at least 4 years if not more, The "womanizer" concept is stupid, it is just a dumb label women put on men, just like "slut" or "whore" is a dumb label men put on women. You should only have one marriage, unless you are someone like Joe Biden, whose wife died in a car wreck. This is a problem for both sexes, not just women.

[Immortal]

Originally Posted by DWM222

Max...women are great..I've been married lots of times & only lost a few houses/cars
(I need to get married one more time so I can get rid of this piece of **** house that I have now..in the next divorce)..LOL

Yeah sorry max, DWM222 was just making a joke about marriage.

[mart]

Originally Posted by DWM222

(I need to get married one more time so I can get rid of this piece of **** house that I have now..in the next divorce)..LOL

You should post this in the jokes thread DWM222. That's another one that had me in tears when i first read it.