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[Enigma]

Some times I don't get this forum, it's a PRON forum, the whole thing about it is a forum when you talk about sex and other thing's to do with sex, some people call it a pu**y some call it a c**t, and so on really on the bigger pic dose it reall matter

[captnjack]

Just because it is a porn forum it doesn't mean you have to be rude, crude or vuglar to be noticed.

[Max]

Originally Posted by captnjack

Just because it is a porn forum it doesn't mean you have to be rude, crude or vuglar to be noticed.

I'm just wondering why we can't swear. We're all adults here.

[CK1]

I don't think is an issue with swearing but rather the way certain words are perceived. some one called you rude, it affects you a certain way. they call you an a#@hole and that affects you a different way. plus who it comes from and they way its delivered will also affect how you would take any of those words. since things here are written it is very easy to take offense to things. plus certain words might be considered "dirtier" than others. i honestly don't care what you say however i think that you for the sake of keeping things friendly, instead of arguing over what words we can and can't use we just follow the terminology that is already used on the site.

[grande351]

For what it's worth, I doubt you'll find ANY woman who likes the "c" word. It's just one of those hot button words that's universally offensive. Probably because it's usually used as a put-down, as in "stupid c**t" or "filthy c**t"

I believe one of the best things about this forum is the ability of the members to discuss sexual topics without having to resort to offensive lanugage.

[Anoree]

Originally Posted by Max

I'm just wondering why we can't swear. We're all adults here.

Just because we're all adults here, we don't have to use good manners? Hmm...

[Natal]

Originally Posted by Anoree

Just because we're all adults here, we don't have to use good manners? Hmm...

Actually, it is because we are all adults here we don't need to swear. Only children and adolescents do (and those who have never outgrown that phase of course). The people who do that have a fundamental lack of maturity, which then gets expressed through swearing and other sorts of childish behaviours.

[Enigma]

Originally Posted by Natal

Actually, it is because we are all adults here we don't need to swear. Only children and adolescents do (and those who have never outgrown that phase of course). The people who do that have a fundamental lack of maturity, which then gets expressed through swearing and other sorts of childish behaviours.

What a load of crap, if swaring shows lack or maturity, how do you explain childern not swaring, most of them know how to, maturity comes with age as they say, but guess what we have people running the world that we put in power they still swaar, dose this mean thay have a lack of maturity, no it dosen't, you may as well have just said that swearing is a sign of limited vocabulary, just to say swearing isn't, it's a sign of how you chose to speak, nothing more nothing less.


@ Anoree, I did see the wink, but as for google bot's, tell me forum's that don't have then, it's so the site can be indexed, just like FTV, the point you made about some of the post's being shown in google search, if the post's are shown on google search, don't you think the pic are as well, if it's a problem with that anyone can see the forum, again they can all so see the pic's.

Now just to point out, in some places it is illeagal so show pron to a miner:
Google bot's index
the index is show on the search
anyone can see the search
think of it that way, there is no warning on the home page saying you have to be over 18, and most cases you don't need one, but before we go there saying it's an open forum and so on, let's look at it from that side

[diamond cutter]

Originally Posted by enigma2

Some times I don't get this forum, it's a PRON forum, the whole thing about it is a forum when you talk about sex and other thing's to do with sex, some people call it a pu**y some call it a c**t, and so on really on the bigger pic dose it reall matter

i agree...this is not a social PG forum, we watch porn & adult stuff then why some people show hypocracy. Asking about removing the question on using specific word is totally out of sense when WE ARE ACTUALLY SEEING IT.

[Enigma]

Originally Posted by captnjack

Just because it is a porn forum it doesn't mean you have to be rude, crude or vuglar to be noticed.

You don't have to do porn to be noticed, but porn stars do, isn't porn "rude, crude or vuglar"?

Originally Posted by diamond cutter

i agree...this is not a social PG forum, we watch porn & adult stuff then why some people show hypocracy. Asking about removing the question on using specific word is totally out of sense when WE ARE ACTUALLY SEEING IT.

This is so right, (Please don't use the word c**t or p***y as I don't like to hear it) and then you watch Danielle putting every thing she can in to it, you don't like the words but you like to watch it being f**ked.

It's a PRON FORUM, it all rude, crude or vuglar, you have to except people being rude, crude or vuglar, other wise, the forum need to be taken down as it's hypocritical IMO

[Anoree]

Porn isn't just porn. There are many shades of it: Tasty, artfull porn, mainstream "wham-bam-thank-you-mam" porn, and downright dirty, degratory porn, just to name a few.

We don't want this forum to turn into "just another porn forum".
You can discuss the topic at hand without getting vulgar or degratory.
Try to keep it tastefull and respecting, just like Danielle's and Rob's sites are.

[AlexanderLL]

I understand everyone's point here. We should all be respectful of each other. This is an adult forum, so content and language is going to be tolerated a little more. I was censored in a writing class in college for my content and lanuage. From that experience, I've learned that it comes down to target audience. Of course we wouldn't be talking like this in church or an elementry school. We are all adults here and should know what is going to offend someone compared to just using a profane word here and there.

On a side note, I've used some vulgar terms here in the forums, but haven't been flagged by an administrator. I've referred to my penis as "junk" and said "giving him jump" to be meant as offering sex. I believe it all comes down to our social norms on what is considered to be acceptable and unacceptable forms of behavior.

[e83sOHpFYv]

I'm not sure that I'd call this forum or Danielle's site Porn. Definitely Adult but in my opinion not Porn. Also Danielle has been asked what her preferences are as to what her vulva should be called. She preferred "down there" So following her lead and trying to be polite and respectful to all is the way to go.

My opinion for what it's worth. lol

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[mart]

Originally Posted by diamond cutter

i agree...this is not a social PG forum, we watch porn & adult stuff then why some people show hypocracy. Asking about removing the question on using specific word is totally out of sense when WE ARE ACTUALLY SEEING IT.

I was not asking for that question to be removed, just saying if i was admin i would have removed it.

I'm a member of several other adult forums where the c word and other words like that are allowable and in my opinion could cause ructions between members and i wouldn't like that to happen here, i wanna make friends not enemies.