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Old 10-30-2016, 04:28 PM   #18
DarkStar1109
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Hello Everyone,
First off, I want to thank Danielle and the forum moderators for approving my request to join this forum. I want to share my recent story with the people that read this page, because if this wasn't already such a huge topic where so many others have shared their story here, and on so many other forums, I might have figured things out too late. Also, it seems like most of the stories I have read so far involve someone from Ghanna or Nigeria, where as this person played a completely different game in this case. I don't know if the scammers are learning to play new tricks, or if this might have been someone actually in the United States learning to play the game now. Maybe there are other stories like this going on, but I haven't read any so far that sound like this. This could get long, so I hope there isn't a limit as to how long this can be. Likewise, I would advise anyone who might be in the process of being scammed to read it through...
I just relocated to a new town at the beginning of this summer 2016. At this point entering into the Fall of 2016,I still don't know anyone here besides my co-workers and roommates. I joined a dating site back in August because I couldn't really think of any other way to put myself out there to meet new people. Nobody wants to go to a bar alone, that just makes you the creepy guy. I have had too many of them suddenly think I feel like spending the night talking to them because it's that guy who goes out alone, that always seems to end up next to me, and wants to cut in on my conversation I am already having with my friends that I am out with for the night. That's the one I call the creepy guy, and now that I don't know anybody in my new town, I'm not trying to be that guy.
I didn't realize what was going on when I joined the dating site at first, because all of this is completely new to me, but within my first week of being on there, I suddenly had a "girl" from Ghanna emailing me, and talking about finding her soulmate to marry. Too much too fast for me, I only got on the site to meet people, and hopefully go on some dates if I clicked with anyone. Marriage isn't an option for me until I get at least a good year or two into a relationship and that has never been enough so far anyways. It was that constant talk that turned me off before the scamming could begin. I am bringing that part of the story up though, because there was a very significant difference in the language that person was using as opposed to my Danielle doppleganger. The person that was talking marriage to me two months back spoke almost exactly like the person quoted by Matt Wallace a few posts up. I never even looked back and thought I was being setup back then until all of this just happened recently...
After two months on the same dating site, I figured I would check out some new ones. I ended up on one of those sites that within 20 minutes of joining, you have over ten messages, all from attractive girls, that you can't open to read without buying a premium membership. A lot of the "girls" that were liking my profile and sending messages I couldn't read simply had profile names like textme###-###-####. One caught my eye, the Danielle doppleganger, so I sent a text. We seemed to hit it off pretty good from the gate. Here is where the story of whoever I was chatting with seems to be different from the other stories I have read so far. This person claimed to be in nursing school, living with her mom in Frederick MD, and very active in the Catholic Church, even claiming to sing in the choir. Then she sent a picture, it was one that was recently posted by Danielle on Twitter, where she said she was off to the store at 1am craving peanuts. It was the perfect picture to compliment the church girl image this person was trying to portray. We chatted for about a week until I got the line about needing help with some groceries, water and internet bills. I got mad, because I knew right then and there that I was getting set up, and I was upset, because I just spent a week with that "church girl" looking picture and this person building the momentum up in our conversation. I was starting to dig this imaginary person, and I felt like I had already been played a fool for starting to believe the lines I was being fed. Things pretty much ended that night, but early the next morning, this person texts me saying that they understand if I don't want to talk to them anymore. Keep in mind, even though I knew I was being set up the night before, I have had no experience with dating sites or the scammers on them until these past two months. I wanted to believe that the night before was a mistake, so I gave this person another shot, until the pleas for money started all over again almost immediately. I hit the roof once again, and said that takes a lot of balls to ask someone when so far, she has made every excuse to not be able to get on the phone, or video chat.
So now we move our conversation from text messaging to skype and hangouts out at first. Couldn't get the sound to work, go figure, and I only got to see about a minute of video before that got messed up. I still knew nothing about how any of these scams work yet still to this point, but I figured that since I saw this person on the other end, that she was there. It only took that minute for this person to start wrapping me around their finger because I was blown away by the beauty of the girl on the other side of the conversation. Now I have learned how video chats can be faked, but I didn't know at the time.
The next day, I told the person on the other end that I felt like a school boy with a huge crush. I also questioned the situation a little more though, and likewise this person whom I had been spending a couple of hours chatting with everyday. I asked if "she" was sure that I was want she really wanted, and "her" response was that I was everything she wanted in a partner. She began to talk about moving here as soon as she was done nursing school, and "she" almost had me again, until "she" went from asking for a little help with her bills and groceries, to saying that needed help paying off nursing school, which she still owed $5000 on. More red flags went up, and I wanted to get to the bottom of things at this point. I asked her to send more pictures, since the only one I had to keep so far was that recent one that I like to call the church girl look. "She" sent two more pix, and in these pictures, "she" had makeup on. I called these pictures "The James Bond Girl" look.
This was when I started to read about dating site scams, and I was even introduced to how to do an image search with the pictures. Immediately I found the Bond Girl pix on all kinds of dating sites, and the Church Girl picture lead me to a site called twpornstars/danielle. I started copying the links down so that when we got online to chat again, I could call her out. Now I was playing the game of how to catfish the catfisher. I will admit, when I found out that the pictures were of an adult entertainment star, I thought that I was being hustled by Danielle herself. I have seen tons of angry and hateful posts by people who never got past that part, and actually thought that Danielle wouldn't have anything better to do with her life than spend a couple of hours a night on the line with them trying to hustle them for money. Yeah, the thought was there immediately for me too, but it only lasted a few minutes because I began to do further research right then and there.
So I didn't loose any money, just a lot of time, and there was a small piece of broken heart there for a quick second. The good that came out of it, is that now, like so many other people, I went from not even knowing about Danielle, to taking an interest in her. I have learned quite a bit about internet scammers too, which will prevent me from the possibility of falling for anything like that again. I even got it in me, to join a few free sites, just to see how frequent scammers will attempt to target someone. One of the first sites i joined, I got hit on by an obvious scammer in only 10 minutes of joining. Since I didn't have my so called friend to chat with anymore, I figured I would play the game of catfishing the catfish. I was able to get this person comfortable enough to try to extort money from me in less than 24 hours. I also came across 4 different profiles on that site alone using Danielle's image.
As far as the real Danielle goes, not everything she does is for everybody, but there is definitely something for anybody. If adult entertainment isn't your thing, then check out her video blogs, she seems like a genuinely sweet girl. She seems like someone you could walk up to in pubic and say hello to. If I have a fantasy worth sharing that involves her, it would be to buy her a drink, and have a chance to talk to her in person. This whole mess started for me, because I was looking to meet people, so I wouldn't end up sitting in a bar and drinking alone.
Info on person running the scam (although probably not relevant anymore):
Called herself Flavia Annang (had a facebook with Danielle's pic, said she couldn't use it though.) Phone number she could only text with, no calls 210-593-6524 Skype: live:sweetme047 Emails: sweetme047@gmail.com and spankiesluv892@gmail.com Said she was living in Frederick MD (there is a Flavia Annang who does live there) Gave this address because I said I refused to send anything via Western Union -8008 Hollow Reed Ct, Frederick, MD 21701
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