If you want to talk privately, make some more posts. Just do not post any personal information on the open forum. This message board is open for public viewing so anybody, even people who are not members, can see anything that is posted. After a certain number of posts on the open forum you will gain access to the private message feature. Then you will be able to send very private messages (not seen by other members except the person you sent the message to).
When you post a Visitor Message on your own profile, the person that you intended it for will not see it unless they happen to view your profile. To answer a Visitor Message from someone, click on "View Conversation" which is located below the message that they posted on your profile. This will connect your profile to their profile so that they will receive your reply on their profile.
This information is posted with the Announcement at the top of the General Discussions forum, titled "READ THIS BEFORE POSTING & FAQ". There is a lot of information there which will help you to understand how this message board operates and how to use many of the features available. It would be a good idea for you to read that section.
thank you your an angle sweetest woman ive ever seen or herd if you get around your site youll see i have a problem with a janet ralph in nigeria says shes you and sends me pictures of you has fb page thats just like yours yahoo messenger with your picture on it i need to know if your still in tuson could you sat hi to regan so ill know you arnt janet ralph thank you regan john rollo jrollo@ymail.com