Hi, birthday is Aug 16 1977. I gotta ask, what kinda boys do you date that do damage to cars etc? I'm fortunate that my size is intimidating (6'5 and 100kg) so I don't really get many violence orientated alpha male wannabes try and start trouble with me, but I'd never be violent towards a girl or her property. Ps the wife says your cute as well haha
As for your restraining order dilemma and that internet clown, I don't believe it extends to online forums, but if what he says is blatently false you can get him for defamation and slander. Best thing is not to react, they feed off a reaction, quietly take down the evidence, and then hit them with a defamation suite, far more effective.
Hope that helps